My own resentments (and even jealousy perhaps) towards my H over this issue have built up so much that they outweigh most of the desire to care for his sexual needs. The more I think about this, the more complicated it gets and the less I want to deal with it.
I don't understand how scheduled sex can work if you have no sexual desire. How can it be satisfying for either party?
I wish it was as easy as it is for my H to get horny - ie looking at a hot guy and wanting to go f*ck my H! Problem solved!
It can't come quickly enough
And now you've spent your life
Waiting for this moment
And when you finally saw it come
It passed you by and left you so defeated.
Scissor Sisters - 'It Can't Come Quickly Enough'
