I have read a lot of posts on these boards over the past few years and after having some rational discussions with my H I do understand on one level how he feels, but I don't feel what he feels if you know what I mean. Same goes for him I guess. He can't feel what it is like to be me.
I have thought about scheduling sex but honestly, the whole idea turns me right off. It would be even more pressure to perform.
Serious questions to any LD partner who has tried scheduling: Was it you or your partner's idea? How did you feel about it to begin with? How did it feel at the time? Did it help?
It can't come quickly enough
And now you've spent your life
Waiting for this moment
And when you finally saw it come
It passed you by and left you so defeated.
Scissor Sisters - 'It Can't Come Quickly Enough'
