Beth2, I'm really glad that my feedback was useful. I know that you will feel more centered when you handle things the new Beth way. Keep up the good work. And thanks again for your thoughts.
Wintergirl, I'm glad you are finding passages that help you think about things in a new way. You know, it's funny. A friend of mine who is divorced told me that she wished she hadn't reacted the way she did when she found out that her husband had had an affair. She said that she believes if she had been able to calm herself down and not go ballistic, they probably would still be together today. She thinks they could have worked things out. But because she went so nuts, things deteriorated incredibly. I understand what you're saying here. It's great that you see this now.
