Hi Michele, I haven't finished your book yet and don't have questions right now but comments instead. I would like to point out two things you said that hit home. To quote what you said in your book on page 59:
"Does marriage have its equilivalent to the "Terrible Twos...?"Because people are unfamiliar with the emotional terrain, the normal hills and valleys of marriage, these predictable transitional periods are often misunderstood, causing overreactions."
I think that is what happened to me 9 months ago when the 'bomb' dropped. I overreacted. I think reading the above quote can help those who are going through marital problems, calm down a bit.
About chapter 5, - Cheeseless tunnels, you mention how people go down the same wrong tunnel time and time again. They don't realize they are doing more of the same. They think their new way is a different tunnel, when it really isn't. I just find it interesting that people can't seem to realize they are doing this. I know I've done this - and like you said in your book, everyone does. Kathy
[ October 10, 2001: Message edited by: Wintergirl ]
