My heart goes out to your daughter as well as you.
Take comfort that you have each other and know that there are several of us out there on a similiar roller coaster ride.
I agree with the other comment for your D6. Let her know that Daddy still loves and cares for her, but is having a hard time at the moment, but he is not forgetting her.
Refrain from ANY negative comments about him around her. Those little ears are amazing. I would also suggest refrain from pushing him to spend time with or see her. He might see this as your attempt to control.
Sending you positive thoughts....
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08