THank you so much for replying. I feel like it is a cycle. H seems so normal at times then BAM! I noticed it is everytime I do mention something to him. i guess I just get tired at times and wonder if he ever sees that. I am not a problem person..I do not like them at all. WEll, Tuesday when I arrived home H left a note stating he was by to pick her up but he ran into traffic and was late. H also thanked me for something I sent him (before we weren't speaking) THe thing is, hdidn't even call since D6 called him so I didn't count on him picking her up. Today is his other scheduled day but H hasn't called so I do not expect him to pick her up since he didn't friday. What to do???? h's father also went through a similar thing but never left the house..could this bew related? THanks again