Has anyone dealt with this?

[cat03]

I dont get it ...H was eating dinner with us..even told me to see his new apartment .Acting as his old self...but now I do not know if he is dead or alive.
H also spends alot of time with a police coworker of his that has been divorced for 10 yrs. I do believe that is a problem. H used to be a christian and valued his family.

You are correct, my H also got "great advice" from divorced friends who got screwed when d'd. Same here about religion, my H is all jaded now and it is a shame to see this man who valued God as the first thing now talking as if the bible is a fairy tale, again, thanks to his bumb coworkers.

I feel so bad about your d6, minimize her expectations and tell her that for a while he won't be coming, even if you know he is supposed to pick her on a certain date dont' mention it until you know 100% for sure he is coming.

He's prob back in the vicious cycle of being an alien again, it is a shame he isn't even calling for your d6, I hope he regaisn his senses at least on that aspect, that little girl has nothign to do w/his prob w/you.

Please always keep your guard up, I kept mine up even after my H was back, so please do the same for both your and your d's sake.