I think we all do...that's why we are here...we get too comfortable with ourselves, then we start dancing a power play game...do it my way.
Don't get me wrong...I still love my XH, but I'm smart enough to know that b/c of that, I had to let him go. I'm strong, confident, but I was a little unsure when we M., I wasn't sure what my role was...now I do.