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I understand what you're saying, but apparently how Luke
works his M depends on helping his W...he is a Jack Of All
Trades...as I said before, this does work for him b/c she
is noticing - before he didn't partake in much.

What enraged me, was the fact that Tmite, so crudely posted
that his wife was being "banged" and probably has been for
a while...LL has no proof it is a PA as opposed to EA, plus
the man is in another country...

My H was the opposite, the Macho Man...no W of his would
ever plant flowers, or do anything other than be a front
piece to accentuate him...peweee!!! If he was more like
Luke, I never would have cheated. Everyone pairs up for
a reason - opposites attract, etc.

However, Tmite needs to phrase himself with a lot more
forethought...less crudeness...but, he doesn't have it in
himself to do that.