I understand what you're saying, but apparently how Luke works his M depends on helping his W...he is a Jack Of All Trades...as I said before, this does work for him b/c she is noticing - before he didn't partake in much.
What enraged me, was the fact that Tmite, so crudely posted that his wife was being "banged" and probably has been for a while...LL has no proof it is a PA as opposed to EA, plus the man is in another country...
My H was the opposite, the Macho Man...no W of his would ever plant flowers, or do anything other than be a front piece to accentuate him...peweee!!! If he was more like Luke, I never would have cheated. Everyone pairs up for a reason - opposites attract, etc.
However, Tmite needs to phrase himself with a lot more forethought...less crudeness...but, he doesn't have it in himself to do that.