I'm seeing a change in your attitude. You are starting to feel positive about the things you are doing and to me that is standing up for yourself. We all have self doubt at times and if we can turn the pessimism into optimism things will work out better for us. That's what great about this place. People will tell you what you need to be happy about and others notice the baby steps more I can on my own.
About the intimacy....What is your definition of intamicy? My W thinks it involves sex. But, I disagree. Intamacy is a closeness you feel with someone through many things including sex. I see you as being on the road to that but it will take time.
I'm the farthest thing from a great DB'er and I know that it takes practice and strength. Lots of strength. And by you showing your positive attitude through the boards you are gaining strength.
As far as tmouse goes. You have to take the good with the bad at times. Maybe tmoron was here to teach you that you have to filter through things to get to the good stuff. Just like with your R, you need to weed out all the negativity so you can have a glimpse of the possibility with your W and your R!
Keep on keeping on!!!
M-35 going on 15 D-8 S- 3 yrs ex-CL(w)- 30
D over one year
I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be. Douglas Adams "Just Be"
