1210, You said:"You are by far, more of a "MAN", than that idiot could ever hope to be...". I don't want to take the wind out of your sails but that "idiot" signed the post as "Jane" Hey, maybe that's his last name But, in all seriousness, I've heard that one too. Somehow it's expected that men just stand up and call the W out for a showdown in the old OK corral! If you don't then your not a man. What I've seen on this BB is that guys who do that end up alone! Pretty simple to deduce what is the better strategy here. It should also be noted that if someone has been less than assertive in the past then a 180 could indeed be acting in a more assertive way BUT that sure is different than "being a man" for the sake of "being a man"!
