First of all...how dare you come aboard and post such an insensitive, judgemental, piece of garbage, I have ever seen.
LL is probably the most intelligent, sensitive man on these BB's, I've seen in a long time.
For your information, his wife has been turning around, slowly, but she has. Whatever works for him, works and that is the point of DBing. Every sitch is quite different b/c the common area involves people - no two people are exactly alike.
If you had some education - which your comments clearly show you don't - you'd realize that sex is the last thing that comes into play in solidifying the M. There is a lot of feeling between LL and his W, but the feelings are there.
If you actually read his posts, you'd also know that his W's OM lives in another "country". So your crude, rather sleazy descriptiopn of what "you" think she's doing is actually so far off base, it's rather humorous.
Your description of what a "man" should be, is just that - your idea - so next time, keep it to yourself, your truck- drivers, barflys, whomever you associate with and leave someone like LL alone - he doesn't need "your help" at all.
