LL has certainly made mistakes in allowing a lack of intimacy to pass as OK for three years BUT part of DBing is looking at what was missing in the R. If paying attention to her and trying to add a little romance was missing then why not try that kind of 180! What's the big rush to make LL a "man". Confronting her is certainly an option but what is the liklihood that she will fall to her knees and beg him to forgive her? I'm guessing about NIL. So, if ending the M is what LL is shooting for then, by all means, be a "man" and confront her. Also, if this DB strategy does not work then LL has the option of confrontation, but what's the rush, I mean it's been three years already. In my mind, being a man means doing whatever it takes to save the R, if that means confrontation and ultimatums, well so be it BUT only after every other avenue is tried. I think LL owes it to himself, his M and his family to try to heal the things he sees as missing from the M first. If that does not work then standing up and "being a man" is the next option. That's my 2 cents anyway.
