Confront her about her affair?

[*KS*Chick*]

I don't think I can really offer an advice. The postive stuff does sound encouraging. I'm looking at it as the S who cheated.....I know that songs right now are REALLY hitting me hard. It's funny because I would have NEVER thought I would do that to him - ever. And yet I did. Our daughter doesn't respect me - she makes that obvious just about daily. And with H, I really didn't feel important whatsoever.

There are a lot of songs that make me bawl right now but the "worst" one is this one by Avril Lavigne.....

"Losing Grip"
Are you aware of what you make me feel, baby
Right now I feel invisible to you, like I'm not real
Didn't you feel me lock my arms around you
Why'd you turn away?
Here's what I have to say I was left to cry there,
waiting outside there grinning with a lost stare
That's when I decided
[chorus]
Why should I care
Cuz you weren't there when I was scared I was so alone
You, you need to listen I'm starting to trip,
I'm losing my grip and I'm in this thing alone

Am I just some chick you place beside you to take somebody's place
when you turn around can you recognize my face you used to love me,
you used to hug me
But that wasn't the case
Everything wasn't ok I was left to cry there
waiting outside there grinning with a lost stare
That's when I decided

[chorus]

Crying out loud I'm crying out loud
Crying out loud I'm crying out loud

Open your eyes
Open up wide
Why should I care
Cuz you weren't there
when I was scared I was so alone Why should I care
Cuz you weren't there when I was scared I was so alone
Why should I care
If you don't care then I don't care were not going newhere
Why should I care cuz you weren't there when I was scared I was so alone
Why should I care If you don't care then i don't care were not going newhere

Don't know if that helped you one ounce or not -- I'm sorry.