No particular plans just now - she is very focused on her work for Japan - prefers that I take the kids to school, do errands, etc - this to maintain work focus. Now she has taken the kids to ballet and violin, a break she doesn't mind as she is getting tired.
For the DB thing, maybe a low key film/dinner in a nearby town next weekend is possible. (She by the way seemed pleased somehow, more open, though this is maybe a matter of interpretation, that I had suggested we do something together. There was a flower in a vase in my window this morning).
She made me mad just now - the car key wasn't where it was supposed to be - she 'were is the car key?', somewhat condescendingly and mock patiently, made me feel like an idiot. Not sure how to react - she did complain that I never fight back - it is a small thing, but quite irritating.