Looks like you have two option to take. This is a choice is one that you will have to make on your own. However make sure you have it all planned out. I had to tell my W that I knew what she was doing and I thought it was wrong. In my sitch I also stated that I love her and that I think that she should be thinking about the kids and the R that we have and work on those. It did not make a bit of difference in my sitch. She still continues to see the OM frequently and after reading the previous post by someone on the other side of the story, it makes sense to me. However I did have to call her out and express my feeling. If you choose that route you should just express your feelings about it and let it sink in for awhile. Do not push her or try to get her to quit. She will have to do that on her own when she is ready. Either way the best route is the one that makes YOU feel better. Think of yourself through this whole thing because you will have to live with any descision that you make let it be right or wrong. Trust me you WILL F up several times. I know I have. Good luck with your Sitch.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
