She is right. There is nothing that either one of us can do about the OM so there is no reason to worry about him. I have a real hard time accepting that but I know that it is the truth. I know in my personal sitch I have to find my humor and emotion state that is missing in our R to make things work again and to make her fall back "In Love" with me.
I would suggest thinking about the previous post. Anything you say about the OM WILL push her away. I know that from expirience. Find what you are lacking and fix it. she will notice. I have notice that my wife is noticing that I am starting to change and it is really starting to get to her. I get weird looks from her everynow and then mostly the WOW did he really say that. Just find your true self again and leave the OM alone. You know what she has done and it is wrong but you are just as much at fault as she is. Accept that and move on. Talking about it is not good.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
