"My wife left for Germany just a bit ago and so I have time to put a plan into action. She often complains about how messy my office is (we both mostly work at home, apart from occasional foreign trips), so I'll give it a deep makeover and 'happen to find' the note in doing so."
I know I would be honest. I agree with Whatisis though that you should sit down and try to let her confess. However Lying about finding the note is not good either. Just be honest with her and then let it sink in for a while. I am not one for giving advice due to my own sitch so some one can correct me if I am wrong. I have always bee the honest and straight forward one.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
