Michele, H has separated from me after 3-4 years unhappiness. He has collected so much bitterness over time and stored it. H now has reached apathy and tells me he likes me but doesn't love me anymore. Is it really possible for this bitteerness to fade or disappear. So far I have read Db and Dr and am implementing them. No OW etc. Do you have any suggestions on methods directed at this problem. He blames me for so many things .