Lil,
I feel much the same about Lou's situation as you do. I've learned that some people will not be happy "no matter what." I see BB as one of those.

Lou,
You've been so patient and worked so hard to make things work with BB. I'm curious, where is your "I'm outta here" line in the sand?

Also, you truly do underestimate yourself in so many ways. You're intelligent, well read, funny, patient and on and on.......Why don't you give yourself more credit?

BTW, I can't take on another BF at this time.
Thanks for the congrats on my upcoming retirement. Only 16 more working days!!!!