Karen1 said
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remember that the next time you feel silly approaching a woman in a way that she likes but you don't really understand



I keep that in mind Karen. Maybe I am trying to avoid coming across as an actor, or someone that does flip flops with their emotions.
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Made me HOT!



Sometimes I wish I could feel what some women feel just too know what their feed-back loop would feel like.

I can touch my elbow with my opposite hand and have two feelings I sense. If I touch someone else's elbow with my hand, I know how it feels to me, I can imaging how it feels to the OP but I really don't know.

Granted, when with someone romantically there are certain clues I sense. When the O is not in a lust/romantic state the clues/feedback signals are not always readable.

Two possibilities here. the OP doesn't give off readable signals (not strong enough or wrong type) or I don't pick up on their signals.

The other more common problem is, everyone has different likes and responses to different types of stimuli.

Karen1, if I can imagine BB would melt to something I would do, I give it a try.

Linear Lou