I borrowed "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida from the library and read 50 pages so far.

Some of the readings are spot on but other parts of the book must be for someone not like me.

Anyway, as in other books I take what is useful/doable for me at the time. No one book can be for all people at all times in their life. I think that is considered perfectionism or something like that. I know I am not perfect.

Lou