The important thing is...she's agreed to go. It's amazing to me the impact a "professional" 3rd party has on someone sometimes. My H always thought I was just nagging him, until our 1st MC & our current one....pointend out to him that he truly holds back a big part of himself (or at least did). That he wasn't giving emotionally to the M, as far as fostering a good environment for our M.
When these two MC's, that he respects told him that it held weight. It made him think..."hmmmmm, maybe it's not just her." Hopefully that will happen with BB too. It may take some time, but if she'll just go....I betchya she'll have somet lightbulb moments.
