Hi Michele I want to thank you for the books that you have written. I have read them over and over. I have a post on midlife crisis. My husband and I have been separated for 14 months. He has not filed for divorce, but constantly says he won'y come home because it won't work between us. He says he will always love me. He doesn't call or come by anymore. I usually call him every 5-7 days to see that he is okay. I really wish you could give me some of your great wisdom or insight as to what I am supose to do or expect from him. We have been married 28 years. Our sons are married. I really feel as if he waiting on me to file for a divorce. I think he could leave things the way they are for the rest of our lives. Please send me advice. Pam