I don't know from a DB standpoint but I think you're showing a nurturing side..I don't think it's bad or that you're being a doormat. And she seemed to appreciate it.
I guess you'll know more about how it was taken once she's feeling better..
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...