personally if I were you, I'd plan a thanksgiving that didn't include her either. This is my new approach, show him I have a life and I WILL be ok, whatever he decides we should do....
I asked my H to dinner this Sat. and he has to "think about it" - I said ok, but if by Thursday, he hasn't gotten back with me, I'll ask again and then I have back up plans with a friend of mine for a night out, just her and I. Dinner and a movie maybe....so he sees I"m not moping around the house, waiting and hoping and praying. Even though I am doing those things....trying to incorporate that into my 180.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
