W is going to feel a lot of guilt. Don't base your decisions or actions on what W is feeling. You continue to analyze and evaluate your actions, and whether or not you are treating w the way she needs to be treated - with Love, honor, respect and cherishment.
Be an example of Christ's love. Christ doesn't condemn guilt or shame, He allows us to eventually understand He doesn't want us to feel that way. Be the same for W.
