need some advice bad. After my affair my wife decided she wanted to work things out. However after 7 months she decided she wanted me to leave or she would get a lawyer, so I left. We have been seperated for almost 3 months now and it has been hell. At first she would talk to me on the phone, and I would stop over. Each time I callled and stopped over I cried to her and beggered her to let me make it up to her. But she didnt care. Now she wont answer my calls and the last time I stopped over she called the cops. It has been 8 days since I last called her, so I called her tonight and she hasnt answered. Do you think her mind is set in stone that things are over? She told me she was going to a lawyer but i havent heard anything yet. I am really scared she has found someone else. She is always going out with her "new" friends who are mostly guys. She even talks on the phone to them. It kills me to think about her with another man, when she is so cold to me. I have read dbing and started DR, how can I show her I am changing if she wont answer the phone. I so dicouraged, I just want to love her with all my heart and make her happy. Any input would be helpfull. Thank you so much.
