So what do you do when your spouse ostensibly calls it off with the OP, but nevertheless continues to occasionally talk to them?
Right now, my wife has seemingly made a decision to break from the OP, but is still obviously upset over it. (Even though she recognized how absolutely disasterous carrying though with it would have been for her.)
Now I find out that the OP still sends her gifts, most recently one that has great sentimental value to my wife.
One thing that she mentioned to me after breaking things off with him was that now things between her and I seemed "clearer". She even mentioned her openness to working things out with me.
