It's one thing to be amicable and to try to keep the peace, it's another to -by your uber passive behavior- tell her "anything goes! here honey, have a good time with that man". As you said on your prev post, it's almost like condoning and letting think it's all ok, to have Op around.
I don't know how to put this gently, she is playing you and taking advantage that you are taking this so well. Give me a little insight of your M, who was the agressive and who was the passive spouse, then we can figure out about the 180.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
