She's obviously lost her marbles, that is just the lowest of the low, what does she think this is going to accomplish?
Quote: telling me that I'm the one she trusts
I also was used as an emotional blanket when my H was on and off with the OP or simply when she was giving him hell and he felt bad. How convinient it was for him to unload on me all his sorrow and pain, then go back free and clear to have a ball with the Op (I didnt' know at the time that he was having and A)
IF it were my case I'd prob tell my H to never mention her name or talk about her whatsoever, there is no excuse to rub the OP on the spouse, your wife has some gull, I'm sorry, I wouldn't put up with that kind of crap.
My H came back to me because he realized after all was said and done only I was the only one who truly cared for him, so you can continue to validate and listen to her, but I don't see one freaking reason why she should be allowed and have the nerve to mention the Op as if there was nothing wrong w/it.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.