Does anyone know how long it usually take from the start of an emotional affair to the end of it? Have you ever seen any of the letters and cards they have written to each other, swearing of their undying love, and how they will wait for years to be with them? Have you ever listened to any of the ow's messages to your H, where she is playing on his protective instincts, or sounding kind of needy, or manipulative? How do I play against that? I am doing all I can to show my H that I can meet his emotional needs as well as his physical needs, but I wonder if I should be doing more and if so, what? does anyone know what the end of the EA looks like? do H's admit it's over or do they pretend it never happened? Anybody with any insight into this, please reply. Thanks, L
