I just posted for the first time on "Let's get started" and then started reading "New Questions" when my husband called. He wanted to talk about picking up the Christmas tree for his place and sounded very up-beat. In fact the past three days he has called for one thing or another and our conversations have been short but friendly. Before this latest phone call I started thinking that my LRT had been working. I rarely call him, when I see him I act as if and have changed a great deal with the nagging and pursuing. But this latest phone call makes me scared. He sounded so happy and talked sounded so positive that I'm afraid he is enjoying living by himself and having me out of his life. Has anyone encountered this before and if so how did you handle it? Is it time for more changes on my part? If so, I'm not sure what those will be cause I am actually happy now but would still like to work on our marriage and stop these divorce proceedings. Michelle, can you give some input as what to do when he honestly sounds happy without you but yet seems friendlier lately when you do talk? Just what I need now is more confusion in my life!! (LOL) I'm really trying to keep my sense of humor about me as well! Which is one of the things I miss about him - his sense of humor!!
