Hi,SPL,I thought about a PI, but I am not sure I really want to know everything that is going on. What do you do to deflect his temper trantrums? What leads up to them? Does he take meds that can interfere with sexual performance? When does he blame you for his inability to orgasm? Immediately after or what? He is probably very embarrased by his sexual performance or lack thereof. I hope you will really get a lot out of DR, I think I am starting to. Please post more, these EA's are so difficult to deal with, aren't they? L