Okay, that is so weird, because we were ML and that's when I thought it seemed so different like it was a different man with me, somehow. I even remember commenting on it. He just said "what?" But it was a couple of weeks later that I found the evidence, which he also denied at first. I, too had never heard of an EA. I, too take responsibility for my behaviors that led up to this, but he is the one who decided to take it to a place he should not have.