I told my H to end it with her, so we could work on our M, and he said he did. But, a few weeks later, I found lots of messages from ow on H's secret cell. So, to keep the peace, I have to believe him, and hope that he will be telling the truth. I told him that communication was our major problem, but he just snorted at me. He dwells on the past and of course, me and how bad I was. I told him that we can't go back, as much as I wish I could, but we can only go forward. F4myM- I hope you have a great time in NYC, and I hope your H wishes he had gone with you. Let me know how it was. Max- I agree with you about the protective wall they build up. Sometimes, the wall seems a lot higher than at other times, and I wonder why. How did you find out about your W and EA? L
