The reason I started this new post is because some seem to make a distinction somewhat between an emotional affair and a sexual affair. My H claims his is an EA, that he has never had sex with her, that she doesn't believe in sex before marriage. She just believes in being a homewrecker, and taking another womans H for her own. She is D, and supposedly her EX was screwing around on her. My H says her H wants her back, but of course we all know that 99.9% of the things that come out of their mouths is a lie. So, I vent here and try to make sense out of it all, try to learn from everyone else here, and give a little advise from time to time. But I just would like to talk to someone whose sitch is that H says it is emotional, not physical. Thanks all who have read this. L