Hello Junebug, Hope your situation continues to improve. It sounds like your husband really wants to be with you, but sometimes he has a hard time with other "temptations" of sorts; i.e., his weekend activities. If he takes his religion seriously (which he probably does), he may eventually come to realize that he can find the strength to overcome things like this that call him away from a more solid lifestyle with you. Maybe he's a bit spaced-out by the fact that his family is growing and he'll soon have more responsibility to another child. He might just be rebelling on some level until he gets used to that. Did he act like this before your first child was born? Well, good luck! Golden