Changing their minds?

[want2bmarried]

I am a woman and from my perspective I think you need to cut her off with the help. She wanted this, now let her reap what she sows.

I was just thinking about this myself. My WAH bascially only comes around when he is either lonely and wants sex, or needs me to help in some way. He tells me what he thinks I want to hear by saying he misses his family and his wife, and of course I melt. Then I don't know what happens either he gets scared and runs or is flat out using me.

don't mean to be off topic. But its easier said than done. Let her feel the full effects of her decision. I think that in our good intentions and trying to repair our broken marriages that our WAS destroyed we become doormats all in the name of saving the marriage.