Quote: Would it help in getting her back if I continue to "Help" her in the situation or am I better off, letting her feel the full effects of the D?
To me...let her feel the full effect...I too had been "Helping" but in my case, I got no return on it...being, nutil she got a job, I would help to pay her credit.....well...been paying it for 4 months and I just called the place to take her name off my account because I am done paying for *her* share. She has had a job for 4 months...has not even tried to give me a single cent. This was an agreement we had after the D but like I just said to you...you might as well let her feel the full effect of what she wanted...that means for her to scrape by then so be it. I know how much you want to help...showing her you are still the nice guy she married but...fair is fair...she needs to see how it is going her way and you going yours...remember...she CHOSE this.
