I can't believe he moved in another woman in YOUR house!!! I hope you got what you deserved in that settlement!!! He is scum...and trash! and SHE is trash if she'll move in with a man who left his wife during the marriage!!!! Don't the H's think "if this girl will be with me while I'm married then how can I trust her?" But NO...they don't think that!!! Don't they realize those girls are nothing but TRASH??? I think you are handling things well though..considering you've had to deal with a divorce, losing your H and seeing him move in with another woman. We women are going to end up very strong and wiser the next go around!!!