yeah he is running out of things to say about why he is divorcing me b/c people aren't given him the sympathy that he wants. He needs to just say "I don't won't to be married to her anymore and my family doesn't like her" point blank. Tell the truth. "She wouldn't kiss my family's butt" that's what he really needs to say!!! I was reading about those Retrouville retreats and I was wondering if anyone had ever been to those and if they work? I would love to convince H to go to one...but I think he would laugh at my face right now. Especially since the divorce preceedings are starting and he never initates any interaction with me.