haha do my nails?? Ok I will. I was trying to look like I didn't have any money so the lawyers would see that and get me more. ha. No the skirts not too short. I don't think he will even care what I look like...he just wants to move on. I don't know of any couples reconciling after mediation. I would think that would make them hate you even more. But hey he put me in this situation....what else can I do? All he had to do was work on the marriage and go tou marriage counseling. But no he wants to deal with this. People think divorce will make them happy....it doesn't!!!