Spike;

Don't wear too short of a skirt; you will be in court.
I want you to look good, not sexy or sleazy. Let him
see what he wants to D.

One thing you said was that he lost weight? That sounds
like he's in a bit of turmoil, which could be good for you.
Maybe he's starting to be affected by all of this.

Just stay positive...be up and sweet...no nastiness. Show
him that you are not going to crumble...it's the 180 again.

Yeah, I agree...you'll probably be there a couple of times.
He will get nasty...remain cool and don't give in. You
will really see him in a different light.

I, too, wish he would stop proceeding, but it sounds like
he is more into getting what he wants.

By, the way, do your nails as well. Look great!!! A big
key.!!!