Hi thanks for that post. It means alot when people care about you and know what your going through. Yeah I hope he does find out who he's been talking too....if he even has...but I'm sure he has. Yeah everybody's been trying to tell me NOT to back down on him or to listen to him wine to me about not taking his stuff. Hey he took a marriage that I trusted in and honored...all b/c I "wouldn't ride horses or fish and hunt with him". I have no house, no H, no future, nothing...all b/c of those things. Not a reason for a divorce!!! So I will not feel bad if my lawyer goes after his butt.ha. And if after I "take his stuff" and he still wants to come back later on down the road...well we'll see how I feel. It would be simple if he would just want to stop the divorce and work on the marriage..but instead he wants to LOSE everything b/c "we are opposite people". Crazy. Yeah I am going to make sure I look good...but it's hard to dress sexy b/c you can't look like a whore in court and you need to look classy at the same time....so I was thinking about wearing a short skirt with a fitted jacket with a tank top underneath and heels. I have to look respectable incase he wants to say I am a ho or something. haha. But thanks for the advice. I'm going to take from him whatever I can since he took everything from me! I know that is horriable, but I've tried to reconcile with him a ton of times during this whole 5 months separation and he won't change his mind. I haven't seen him since July and it is going to be weird to see him. Your right...I probably won't recogonize him at all and I will see him in a different light. People around town say that he has lost lots of weight and is really skinny. I don't know why....he should be happy now since he got rid of me...what do you think?? ha. I would love for the mediation to end the 16th, but I have a feeling it's going to take several before we go to court. He loves his money way too much and he has lots of it. Ok thanks for letting me vent!!! Tell me about your story!
