yeah all those things are just excuses. I'm sure he does have someone else...but we live in a small town and haven't seen or heard anything yet and it's been 6 months. She must be hiding out really well. My lawyer has asked for his cell phone and home phone records from the past 12 months so I know those will show something. Yeah I've got guys that look at me and go "he's not attracted to you and can't have sex with you? He's either got somebody or he's gay." haha. I don't know. But your right...I asked him "If you wanted me to do all those things with you...why didn't you want to do anything I was interested in?" He just said "I don't like what you do." Being an ass. I just wish he would come out and say he has somebody else...and I could find closure with that. But he doesn't. My attorney is asking for half of everything from him and he is freaking out. I hate to fight him, but I have to show him that he can't just toss me aside without paying a price ya know? this will teach him a lesson if anything. I wish he would just come out and tell the truth. I've tried to prepare myself that he does have someone, but I don't think it will fully hit me until I actually know. And i wonder...what is so great about her? Does she ride horses and hunt and fish with him?? haha. Most girls don't do all those things unless she is a tomboy or real country girl. I'm a country girl, but also classy. He wants a classy girl that will also do "man things"....crazy. I know it's all excuses though. don't you hate it that they give you these dumb excuses?
