I've got one even better. The night before the moving van came to move me into an apartment; we ML (actually, I faked it - too upset) and after H said, don't think this will change my mind. What was that - guilt? I think so!!!!
When I read your information, you sound like me: Blonde, 5 ft. 7 in., 120 lbs. But I have a question for you... why didn't your H ask you if there were things that you liked to do and he would join you in doing them? Why not do your interests - not just his. Personally, some of the stuff he wanted to do, I wouldn't either. It sounds like that was the only thing he had to complain about. What an excuse.
Forgive me, but I think he found someone new. You know that you will come across as the villan in this to OW. And, there will always be someone to console the H.
I know my H had OW. The night I moved, I went back in my car and saw my IL's there at our house and there was the OW. I could see them in the livingroom windows. It really pissed me off - but I left. I just think that some H's don't have the guts to admit it - in fear of hurting us. But the damage has been done...here in my home another woman is there. That takes a lot of balls. But maybe things will change after the romance cools. Maybe Ow won't look so good...who knows. All I know is that I was his first choice...she is his second...that will never change.
