Dear Hoping, I think it's a good sign that your h wants to have sex with you now since he wasn't interested before. That's certainly moving in the right direction.
As I read your post, I couldn't help but wonder, "Do you and your h talk about sex? HAve you asked him about his interest in only having oral sex? Have you tried initiating other things with him?"
Without knowing your h, it's difficult to tell what's going on in his head about sex. Sometimes people are hesitant to have intercourse for a variety of reasons, including fear of pregnancy.
So, if you haven't already, talk to him and see what he says. Michele
