Thanks so much for the 'letter writing' advice. I composed a loving email to my H, apologizing again for his hurt and to lovingly let him go. I don't know if he's hearing anything at the moment. As far as he's concerned, the door is closed. If it will open again is anyone's guess.
Even though I understand the benefits of the LRT, is it likely to lead to 'out of sight, out of mind'? That seems to be an ongoing comment around the bb.
Thanks again for your advice...I truly appreciate and respect all you do for so many couples....