Dear WITW, If you haven't already, write him a heart felt letter (The Medium is the Message). Tell him that you love him and that you understand how hurt and betrayed he felt about your decision to separate. Expand on this for a while. And then tell him that you sense his reluctance to move forward and that you've been pushing him too hard. In light of this, you have decided to let go and whatever happens, happens. You don't want to pressure him anymore. You will stop being the glue holding the two of you together. Tell him it's an act of love and that you are just going to give him the space he obviously wants right now. Then end it lovingly.
After the letter, back off big time and see what happens. Does that sound okay to you? Michele
